There is this girl at work that I really like.We hang out , talk and meet for coffee as well but mostly in groups.I have mentioned to her a couple of times that I like her but she puts it off saying she is not looking for a relationship right now and will think about it later on.Yet she continues texting me and asking me for help which makes me think that maybe int he future she will be ready for a relationship.I enjoy her company a lot and want us to be more than friends but how do I know if she feels the same way ? “
It is often a tough game for men to find out if a girl likes him or not.In reality, it is not that hard to know.Women are easy to understand if you pay attention to the right things.First and foremost, if a girl likes you, she will express it in some way.You will know.If you don’t know either she is too shy or she is just has no romantic feelings for you, mostly it is the later.Secondly, if a girl says she is not looking for a relationship , she is not interested in you.Every girl is looking for the right man at every point in her life.There is no such things as “I am not ready for a relationship”.Of course, if she just out of another relationship she might need some time but not too much so if she is taking longer than a month, you should take a hint.Thirdly, if she is using you to help her, either she really values you as a friend or is just taking advantage of you.You need to know the difference according to your relationship you have with her.Another factor which will tell you if a girl likes you or not is when she is ready to meet you alone .If she avoids going out with just you for dinners or movies and prefers to hang out in groups or often brings her friend along, most likely she just sees you as a friend.
Women are pretty transparent , only if men know how to read the right things.You need to sometimes take things at face value.If she says she is not interested or just wants to be friends, take it that way and move on.If you still continue asking her out or texting or messaging her, she will find you annoying and probably be bitching about you to her friends as “why does he not get the point”.If things have to happen, they will.Your job ended at initiating it.Just because she is not interested does not mean there is anything wrong with you.It just means there is someone else out there who is more compatible to both of you.Different people feel attracted to different types of people.Start looking for romance at some place where it will be reciprocated rather than waiting for a tunnel which might never have a light.
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