1. They miss their mom :
Men miss their family esp. their mom but prefer not talking about it. Talking about it makes them either feel guilty about not spending as much time at home or talking to their parents as they should or it makes them think you will feel he is emotionally weak. In reality men and women have same emotions except that women display it and men don’t.
2. They invest and save :
Men like to believe they are smart enough to make their own decisions. When it comes to money, there will always be a part they will not reveal to their wife or gf not because they do not trust their significant other or have any intentions to hide but because they feel it is not necessary to reveal unless it has strong implications. They like to save things up for a rainy day without having too much interference by their women. They feel it is a man’s job and not something a woman should worry too much about.
3. They are jealous :
Men do not express jealousy the way women do by shouting and snooping but that does not mean they do not feel it. Men perhaps are way more protective about their significant other than women are. However men are able to keep their emotions in a better check. They prefer to not ask too many questions unless the real need comes up. Unlike women, they observe from a distance and probe only when they feel it is beyond their tolerance.
4. They love to gossip :
Story – Women:”OMG I finally kissed him” Friend: “OMG tell me from the start. Was it romantic? How did you feel? You initiated or he? How long was it? Did you feel anything? Are you in love”- Conversation lasts for one hour.
Story (same scenario)– Man: “Bro I kissed her” Friend fist pumps. End of story It’s not that men don’t share and gossip with each other. It’s just that their way is different. Men convey much more than women in much fewer words. Moreover, for men, gossip is a fact whereas for women gossip is a mean to derive various other conclusions and comparisons. This, however, does not mean that the male folk don’t discuss or like to hear who slept with whom, who broke up with whom and who fought with whom. Most of the time they already know what you are telling them, they are just to lazy to admit it or prefer letting you feel happy to be revealing it.
5. They could eat more than they are currently eating with you :
Men would perhaps eat more alone than they do in front of you. Food and men and BFFs. Sometimes they stop only out of shame or the look you might give accusing them of gluttony. Maybe a lecture on their waistline might follow after too but the reality is that men will eat as much as you keep giving them as long as it is good food. Often on dates as per statistic, men eat half of what they can actually eat in fear of looking bad or being judged by the girl
6. They discuss about other girls more than you know :
Yes, men discuss your girlfriends. They discuss your best friends. Your lady boss and perhaps even your cousins. Truth is, men discuss girls all the time amongst their boy group. As much as they will never admit and perhaps delete those messages, this is a fact. A harmless fact though. Most men are just talk and no action. Research proves that men act on only 7% of what they talk about and only 2% of what they say they have done is actually true. They might boast about or express their fantasy or even talk about the figure of other girls to their guy friends but that is only because they are boys. They either talk just to look cool or to gossip. Most of the time they don’t even care about the women they talk about. So next time you catch your husband or bf discussing a girl with another guy friend, don’t jump to conclusions. Rather ignore it or clarify.
7. They too have emotions like worry and fear :
Men are not emotionless as most women think. They too fear and worry.Of course there are some jerks you might meet on your way but after 25 even men worry about settling down,getting married and having a family. Contrary to what women may think,men stress not being able to find a life partner and fear having to settle with just anyone. In society, we label men as more commitment phobic and cheaters than women.In reality it is not true.The reason we hear more about men is that when a man fails to commit or cheats, more fuss is made.A woman’s tear always reduces the impact of her mistake whereas for men, even a small error can be aggravated only because he is a man,a symbol of aggression and chauvinism. Men too worry about their reputation and fear not finding a long term partner even though on the outside they show they might not care.Showing lack of care is often a defense mechanism for men to hide their true fears. Most men love being in relationship if they are ready and have the right person just like girls. They are no different.
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