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Press · 1 February, 2016

#Featured – On DivyaVithika.com

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Kaushik and I had 5 years of long distance when we

Kaushik and I had 5 years of long distance when we first started dating and then almost another 1.5 years when he moved to the US.

Was it hard? Of course. It’s never easy to live away from the person you love. When we were much younger, it was harder because at that age all you want is time and attention constantly. At one point, it even caused us to take a break and re-evaluate ourselves as individuals.

But as we matured and grew up, even though the love was the same, stronger rather, going through a long distance relationship became easier because the values on which we placed importance changed - supporting each other, personal growth, reliability, building our dreams together, etc vs just want and attention - and when you align on such fundamental values, distance becomes just a minor factor as a couple (may differ if you have kids)

Of course, what also helped was that technology developed. When we were in our teens, we didn’t have FaceTime, etc to make long distance easy. I remember saving up money to buy calling cards and rushing to internet cafe to chat for 15 mins - versus as adults when we did long distance, it was seamless with the multitude of technology around us.

But through it all, there were some key things I learnt in all our years of long distance that helps to make the relationship work better over distance :

💛 Prioritizing each other but balancing it with personal time and growth
💛 Having 100% transparent and honest communication
💛 Learning to empathize and letting go of petty issues to get as much quality time as possible. (Always remember you’re a team)

✔️ And most importantly making an intentional effort to make small moments special for the other person whether it’s bdays, anniversaries or just a random day. Make that effort.

💁🏽‍♀️ Have you ever been in a long distance with your partner? What is the main thing you learnt from it ?

📸 : @bianca_frost_photography (took this gorgeous sunset ☀️ shot on our trip to Phoenix this time around)

Heaven amidst a desert? 🏝 Yup! If you guys vi

Heaven amidst a desert? 🏝

Yup! If you guys visit #Phoenix - highly recommend spending some time at the wellness resorts in #Camelback. The resorts are stunning expansive properties with pools, wellness and fitness activities, spa and beautiful sunset.

We chose to stay at the gorgeous @sanctuaryaz_ in paradise valley and we LOVED it. Not only was the property beautiful but the hospitality was out of the world. 🌵

Other wellness properties to consider around the area include - @fsscottsdale , @royalpalmshotel , @camelbackinn , @omnimontelucia (save this post for future trip reco 📌)

Plus, most of these resorts are pretty close to old town #Scottsdale so you could totally take a trip out down to the vibrant part of town to enjoy brunch or a night out while enjoying the comfort of your wellness resort.

Kaushik and I did paddle board yoga, for massages in and spent a lot of time at their infinity pool ( they have 4 pools on the property)

Have you tried any of these resorts or visited Phoenix? 🙋🏽‍♀️

𝘋𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘨𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘧𝘧 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘴𝘰𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘭 𝘮𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘢? 🤦🏽‍♀️⁣
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And when you do, do you feel you’re losing out on potential opportunities ? That someone is racing ahead while you’re taking a break.⁣
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Do you feel a sense of major FOMO? Or fear of losing momentum ? 👀⁣
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If that’s ever occurred in your mind even for a second, let me give you an alternative thought process to consider.⁣
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It’s not the end till it’s the end.

So TAKE YOUR TIME. A short break in the larger scheme of things does not matter. ⁣
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A few weeks ago, I started coaching a student who joined my program as she was facing major anxiety as she was unable to show up on social media as often as she would like and the first thing I asked her was :⁣
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🚀 Are you in for the long haul ? ⁣
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Because if you are - it’s ok to reset time to time. Rather it’s important.
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Over the next few sessions, we worked on creating a routine and workflow which gave her predictability, a system, time to breathe and the confidence that it’s ok to relax. 🤗⁣(swipe to see her sweet msg she sent the weekend)
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It’s hard to be productive if you are anxious and thinking about every little thing.⁣
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Think about social media growth like the stock market. You want to invest in it like you would invest in long term stocks. ⁣
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Sometimes in the short run these stocks look like they are dipping, but over a 5-10 year period, you’ll notice the consistent growth.⁣
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Our social media journey needs to be similar. You need those dips to scale better.⁣
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More than anything else, taking breaks time to time especially if you are a solopreneur or content creator that handles eveything alone, it can do wonders for your mental health.⁣
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So take a break. Recharge. Inspire yourself in new ways. Go on a holiday or spend time with your family and friends and see how it can uplift your energy. 🏖 ⁣
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Do feel anxious when you’re off social media? What do you do to solve that? ⁣
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P.S 👉🏼 Taking a break doesn’t mean your work has to stop. You can use multiple tools to make your life easier and give yourself the space to zone out. If you need more help on elevating your productivity, hit me up. 📩

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