Different men like different kinds of women. There are never fixed rules to being the perfect partner or having the perfect relationship. Each couple is unique. But if you are in a serious relationship, some traits can help you become a better and more understanding girlfriend to your boyfriend. Have a read
Girls get angry, cranky, and screechy all the time and men understand that but if you want to be a better girlfriend learn to keep the volume down. A man appreciates if his girlfriend can communicate well in a calm way even when angry. In fact, men tend to listen and understand better when women don’t shout. So if you want to get your point across to your boyfriends, talk not scream.
Trust is often an ultimate decider for having a strong and healthy relationship. It is not only important to trust but to show trust. Your partner should know that you trust them. It is a two-way process. If you expect your partner not to snoop, sneak or check your phone, mails, etc build that confidence in your partner. Tell them about your daily happenings and involve them in your life. Do not keep hiding your phones from them and putting passwords everywhere.Try not to bring up an opportunity for them to distrust you.With time, they will realize and start trusting. On the other hand, if you find yourself always being tempted to check your partners phone it means there is a lack of trust and it is time you guys talk to resolve the gaps.
3.Learn to cook
We may be in an age where men and women are equal but the way to a man’s heart still remains through his stomach. It is not about cooking but showing that you are making an effort to understand what your partner likes. Your man may still love you equally if you do not cook but he will definitely be taken aback and appreciate you more if you manage to dig up his favorite dishes.
4.It’s the small things that matter
In reality, men expect very little out of their partners unlike women. As long as you are loyal and loving to them, men need nothing more. Hence small things that you do for your men will make him feel special even if it is as small as watching his favorite movie with him or buying him dinner from his favorite restaurant. Small things count in a relationship. They prove you care.
Often when a man commits, he expects equal commitment from his partner. He likes to feel that he is the only guy who can capture her attention. If you want to prove your love to a guy, stop contacting your ex-es, stop flirting, be responsive to your partner and above all have his back. A man who knows he has someone by his side who he can fall upon, is the happiest man on earth.
6.Be respectful to his family
Do not and I repeat, do not criticize his family or background. If you don’t like his parents, discuss it with him like a mature adult rather than bitching or being spiteful about it. No matter how cool a guy is, he hates if his girlfriend/wife talks badly about his family. Consider his family yours and you have his heart.
7.Be comfortable expressing your physical needs
Girls tend to be more shy and conservative when it comes to expressing physical desires. With time, a man feels happier if his girlfriend is open about her and his needs and comfortable talking about their physical life. Women may think that her partner may judge her on what she wants or desires but in reality, that is not true.Men become more confident and tend to enjoy the process more when the women is equally involved and vocal.It makes a man feel more wanted.This kind of openness also helps to solve problems or discomfort in a relationship if any as well as add spice to it.
8.Understand when he is sleepy
The worst thing you can do is to pick up a fight just when your boyfriend is about to sleep. I understand it is tough for a woman to ignore and sleep when a fight starts in the night but they need to understand how men genetically are made to switch off during fights which happen nearing their sleep hours. It might be tempting to pick up a discussion then but you will just make matters worse. If you really want to solve the issue, wait for morning. Your man himself wills come up to you to make up. If he doesn’t, then he doesn’t really care.
9.Encourage his passion
The worst thing a girl can do is criticize a guy’s hobby or passion. Every man has a job and then he has a hobby. Let him be and pursue it. It could be playing a sport, an instrument, reading or even something as small as collecting postcards or miniature cars. Encourage him to learn what he likes. This will not only make him a more confident person but it will de-stress him and also help him to appreciate your passion.