We had earlier published an article on the traits that would make a girl re-consider going on a date with a guy. Today we tell you the men’s side of the story. What are the things that would make a man not ask a girl out for the second date.
Here are the top 5 reasons:
1.The one who is always on her phone – Men may love their phone but often on a date,they have their entire focus on the woman else he wouldn’t be on a date with her in the first place.Hence they expect the same. Period. If a woman is constantly on the phone, it gives the man a sense that she is either not interested in him or busy talking to other men. This will definitely turn him off.
2. The one who asks, “how much do you make”– Men hate money-minded women. Conversations that make him feel a woman might judge him on the basis of what he has, where he lives or what he drives might make him wary of you and re-consider. If a woman is all about the money, it shows. Men do not pursue gold diggers.
3. The one with a fake accent – Men hate women who put on an accent. They like a girl who is confident in her own skin. Putting on an accent gives him a vibe that you are trying to show off or be someone you are not. Men hate copies. They like originals.
4. The one who does not know what to talk– Men hate dull conversationalist. If a man feels he is the only one asking questions, he will stop after sometime. A typical example would be:
Man: So what’s up?
Woman: You tell me
Man: How is work going?
Woman: Good (silence, she does not ask any question)
Man: that’s nice, so what is your hobby?
Woman: Not much, lazing around (silence, no questions again)
Man: Okay.Erm, what do you want to eat?
Woman: Anything you want.
Women need to make the men feel part of the conversation and not a monologue. He needs to feel that she is initiating as well. In any relationship, after a point, sex and looks fade away. It’s the great conversations between you and your partner that you remember and they make the relationship more steady. Men know that and thus look for a woman who they can freely talk to.
5. The one who is just weird– Do not talk about your sickness or about your family problems or give that weird loud man-like laugh. Men like normal happy girls. You will have tons of time to share your family history, past history, sickness, whims, and fancies later on. Do not gross him out with gory details about how you got wasted and pucked all over the floor.
In short be yourself.Eat what you want,dress what you are comfortable in,be true and above all be nice and you will find yourself on the second date.
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