Is he the one? Is he not the one? Tough one to answer especially after your first date. Women might not know what they want so soon but few traits can definitely help them clutter out what they do not need. Obviously there are exceptions but those are rare.
So here is a guide to 5 kinds of men you should re-think to pursue after your first date experience
1.The one who talks about his ex-gf – It is ok to talk about your past relationship on your first date but briefly. If a man goes on and on about how she dumped him, cheated on him or how he misses her or he did so much for her, girls take a note. He is not over her or he might be an attention-seeker, two types you want to avoid.
2.The one who does not pay – It is old fashioned, tradition, opposes the term women empowerment or equality but that’s not the type of equality women want. Some things are to be done and will always have to be done and that is a man paying for the first date. Subsequent dates you can go dutch or share but the first date has to be traditional. If a guy does not have cash in hand or forgets his wallet, be wary. Men know they are going on a date and are often well prepared.If not,he does not really care much.Period.Of course there could be some genuine cases but that you would clearly be able to tell from the non-genuine ones. This is a mark of chivalry and how well a man can take care of his woman.
3.The one who is a homophobic –No one is asking you to have gay friends but to talk badly about them just shows how open minded you are. Such men are a big no no. If they can discriminate or ridicule something that is not in man’s control there are chances he might be opinionated or stubborn on other issues as well. From experience, most of the homophobic men lack self-confidence and self-esteem. We have the freedom to love whoever we want and that’s not a very tough thing to understand if he is a sensible man.
4.The one who doesn’t drop you home – It is still ok if he doesn’t drop you to your doorstep but he should at least call you a cab and follow up after if you have reached home safe. This is basic courtesy. If he just says bye and leaves without checking on you, he might just turn out to be a chauvinist in the long run.
5.The one who is a mamma’s boy – Yes we find men who love their mum cute. But if on the first date that’s all he talks about, you might want to re-think. If it comes across that it is his mother who decides what he wears, where he goes, what he eats, there might be chance she will have a bigger say than him on who he dates. You want a guy with a mind of his own and not the one who says “My mother doesn’t like this” for everything.
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